- April 2, 2007 at 1:58 pm #239902BiggerPiggyBankParticipant
My daughter recently got married and we didn’t have much money
(obviously) to give her. So this is what we did.
We found a wonderful cake recipe, Strawberry Yogurt Cake with freshIt was very elegant and
strawberries at the Betty Crocker website. Sarah, my daughter, bought
2 large cake pans and we quadrupled the recipe. It was covered with
pink icing I bought on sale and strawberries.
We looked for public places to have a small ceremony and settled on
City Hall. It was so beautiful, lovely walkways, trees and a fountain
where we had the ceremony.
We called around and found a place that rents chairs cheap.Sarah bought red and white roses at Costco and made her own bouquet.
It looked like it came out of a bridal magazine. We bought her veil
We went to Costco and bought all the food there. Fruit trays, sliced
ham, rolls, large bags of fancy tossed salad in a kit. Vegetable
We recorded our own wedding cd and played Bach “Joy of Man’s Desiring”It
during the bridal march. I had that at mine too. So perfect.
sounded like a chamber orchestra must be hiding somewhere.
Since the pictures have been developed everyone is asking. Who did
your flowers, who made your cake? we did!
now people are askingtotal cost:under $300.00
sarah to do their weddings!
Just more proof that you can have a good quality of life and not go
deep into debt. I think the more I need to think and plan about how I
handle my finances, the better life I live as a result. It’s all that
- October 22, 2008 at 8:01 pm #401253We did our wedding for $2000.00.
I got my dress, alterations, veil, and shoes for $300. I found a beautiful ivory colored dress on clearance on a rack. I was able to negotiate the alteration fee and the shop took it from a size 16 to a size 6 for $75.
The shop also gave me a free veil. I got my shoes from Payless shoes for $15. The lady that helped me at the store was so wonderful.She even cried when I put the dress and veil on and she said that she hadn’t cried in years. My mother chose not to go dress shopping with me so my MIL went with me.
I found a clubhouse in a nearby community and since I knew someone that lived there, I was able to rent the venue for $500 for a Saturday from 7 am to 10 pm. It was gorgeous with a lake, a pier, beautiful landscaping, etc. It also came with tables, tablecloths, a kitchen, bathrooms, a fireplace, and a reception area where we could put the gifts.
I had a friend make my 3 wedding cake layers (I did 3 different cakes on 3 stands) for free. I also had my in-laws show up with a 5 tier wedding cake as a surprise…so we had plenty of cake. The same friend also cooked up 10 lbs of spaghetti, spaghetti sauce, Alfredo sauce, and gave me several pieces of china as a gift.I picked up apple cider (since we don’t drink) on sale after the holidays (our reception was in late January) along with bagged salad and dressing to round out the meal. We also had taquitos as an appetizer as they were also on sale at the store.
I picked up snowflake themed plates, cups, napkins, decor, lights, etc. at the after holiday sales and did a winter theme for our reception. I am also able to reuse the decorations each holiday season.
I had my hair done at great clips ($45), a co-worker did my make up, and my 2 bridesmaids wore dark blue dresses they already owned. I also had another co-worker help serve for a few hours ($50). We borrowed speakers and a cd player from a friend (who also attended) and we burned CD’s to play.We got married by the Justice of the Peace 2 months before our reception.
We had another person who claimed they were a professional photographer do our photos for $120. They were supposed to print them out but claimed they ran out of money for the ink. After a few months of asking for the pics we ended up getting a cd of all the photos.
I also was able to borrow decorations, pretty material, cake plates, etc. from friends. I did get buttermints and the card wishing well from Ebay, serving trays and bowls from the thrift store, MYO invitations, programs, menu cards, etc.from Target when they were on clearance. I also got a decorative wedding pen and stand on clearance from Target. I had received a guest book as a gift a couple years earlier when we moved into our house.
Our centerpieces were craft bowls with blue faux flowers and ribbons tied around the top with snowflake candles floating in blue tinted water placed atop sparkly tree tinsel. They turned out gorgeous and they were really cheap to make.
My parents were unable to contribute monetarily, but they helped with decorating and clean up.I think for $2000.00 we had a really nice reception and everyone had a good time.
- October 23, 2008 at 3:15 am #401270
Hey, it’s a good idea to plan your requirements before one week…..
So be attentive and make your big day a memorable day……
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