beansthemama

I am telling you my dh is like my third child. rrrr I am really trying to get the kids to eat healthy, you know one fruit or veggie per meal. Tonight I made stroganoff and a salad. My ten year old I knew was going to throw a fit. Sure enough he did.....he went for a second helping of the pasta, and still had not touched his very small salad. I gave the dh that look and he held his hands out like just wait dont say anything, so I didnt say a word. My youngest wanted to get into the bath, so I slipped away from the table for a second, just in enough time to come back to CATCH my dh putting my son's salad back into the salad bowl! I was seeing red, notice I am typing in it as well! The nerve! So I said something and they both lied to me and said that he had already ate his salad. So I went over and put more in his bowl for him to eat. Not to mention his second helping was one of those cases when your eyes are bigger than your stomach. We have been going thru this a lot latley whatever he puts on his plate he has to eat. So after the wyning and crying about the salad stopped, I went up to help the DH out with some work things while the oldest one was still at the table, only to have him tell me that his dad told him if he was stuffed that he didnt have to finish! SO TWICE TONIGHT HE HAS GONE OVER MY HEAD AND LET THE KID WIN! This is why I have the behavior problems that I do with him, b/c his father wants to be his friend. So frustrating, and when I call him out on his behavior, he yells at me and tells me that I am acting like the child. GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR RRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR RRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
Ok Thanks I feel better just needed to let it out.