Wedding Invitation Ettiquette Question

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I decided to put my two cents in here. As a wedding professional There are several reasons children are not included in the reception. Unless certain things are in place (a room set aside for the children with a babysitter, or if the facility has one a room with video games and movies.
One is cost. You pay the same for each dinner.

It does not matter if it is a
child or an adult.
Two – Older children can become bored rather easily if the reception is not lively.
(dancing to music they are not familiar with).
Three: The risks of alcohol consumption in minors increases when there is not much supervision.

Know I am not saying that the parents would not be keeping track of the minor children. This is a problem common in all parts of the country. I have attended many weddings were relatives invite children to take there first drink,
even if they know the parents don’t approve.

In the case of large wedding children (especially young ones) can become lost, easily distracted and tired. Then they become irritable and should be taken home. Would you prefer for the guest to enjoy themselves with out having to worry about children and enjoy the celebration of the new couple.

Another thing. Some time after the wedding a picnic with all family members could be held and all the children could be invited to meet the new member of the family and enjoy a day of outdoor games and food.

Gail North East PA

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