I have found the more we trust them the freeer they feel about talking. Not to
be bossy but
give hints as to solve or things just for mom ears. Trust both ways are
important even if they
mess up stand behind them and tell them some learning comes the hard way but
Love does
not Quit .let them learn a few lessons the hard way .the hard way is hard on me
because I
want to fix everything but I learnt hard way Love and Trust is so much better
Fiqureing out
there problems with a bit advice helps them to grow .If this makes sense it does
to me .I love
reading the posts Thanks