I have four children and the have doen chores since they were 2. Never paid them at all. I have taught them you are a member of this family and everyone contributes to the running of the family.
Now tehy are 19, 17, 16 an d14 and all still do chores when they stay over a friends they do things there to help out. When kids come over our house to spend the night I have them help clean up after the meal. I hav etaught a manyof my kids friends to cook and eat liek a family which is what we do Hav e aBlessed Day Joy