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- March 3, 2008 at 4:45 pm #256298
The first thing you need to do is…..leave the “BUM” that is all he is & all he will ever be. No matter how much hetells you that he is going to change when he finds out you’re serious, he is still a bum. How do you know he isn’t on drugs?Why would you want to be with him?
Don’t say because you care about him. How could you care about someone that treats you & your children like crap? He doesn’t care about his family.
I don’t mean to sound rude or hurt your feelings. If he did he would be out there trying to support his family. Even if he doesn’t have a job & doesn’t want a job, a divorce judge will make him get a job & keep it, he will pay child support or go to jail.
Check with your town or county about housing, if there is a list get on it. Your monthly salay will go futher if you don’t have the bum around to help you spend it. You & your children will be alot better off without him.
Please don’t have anymore children. There are ways
to stop that. I watched my best friend go through the same thing, she is now happily remarried & her children are doing great.
wrote: Hello All,
I am in desperate need of advice. I have got to be one of the worst
people in the world with money!!! I have never gone by a budget; I
just get money and spend it within two days.
I would really like to
start managing my money instead of spending it. I have five children
so I need to actually have money for all the things that come up. It
real hurts me to tell the that they can’t have things they want
because of my mistakes. It’s also bad that every time they want
something the question always starts with “can we afford?”.
very sweet children and anytime they get even a few cents they offer
it to me to help out, they are just children they shouldn’t have to
worry about theses kind of things. Several times I have found
printable budget worksheets online but they have never helped. I
spend my money on ridiculous things not what I actually need.
Although I know that my spending is completely outrageous my biggest
problem is my husband.
We have been together for 8 years and he has
never worked. No amount of begging and pleading will get him to get
a job, he doesn’t want one and that’s all there is to it. Up until
six months ago I had been on welfare for the whole time we where
together. I am now working but only make about $2,000 a month. Our
rent is half of that.
My husband is an alcoholic and spends a lot of
what is left on booze (thank god he’s not into drugs too). When I
tell him no he just takes the money anyways. He’s abusive so hiding
the money just gets me hurt and he ends up with the money anyways.
know what you are all going to say get rid of him, that’s not an
option!! I am trying the best that I can to provide for my family
and get our lives in order but without knowing how to budget and
having such a crappy credit rating I’m lost. My bad credit is
another of my problems…I don’t know how to fix it. Any suggestions
about how to start off with the budgeting would be really
Thank you all.
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