>>What would you do?<
Although the money is better with 1 job, I would opt for the 1 that I would be more likely to stick with. If you are making less money, but are happier doing the job, you will more than likely stick with it and keep it. If you are unhappy, stressed, not spending (as much) time with your kids, just for more money, chances are you will end up quitting or resenting the job.
Go with your heart and what works for you and your family,
Hugs,
Liss