Be glad she is active!!!!! That said, I got my then very active 3 year old started making necklaces. I bought her the larger pony beads to start, and then we got into more of the decorative type beeds, I don’t know what they are called, I just called them the flower ones. Then I just got her some yarn and the big needles for plastic canvas, and showed her how to string them.
It has kept her busy for over a year!! This is also a skill that they work on in pre kindergarten–was shocked that an idea i had worked out for her education too!! this did get her to sit down, and improved her ability to concentrate. You can also go to the fabric or craft stores and get the foam beads that go with the holidays. hope this helps, Deanna