- August 13, 2008 at 10:22 pm #261741
Re: Need advice Sorry so long hope it makes sense.Quote:wow, it sounds like she is reaping what she has sown. if she had changed the licence a year ago when she became a tenn resident ( as the law requires) , she would not have this problem. if she had dealt with the licence loss when it happened two months ago ( also the law) she would not be in such a jam now.
if she hadn’t gotten pregnant, she wouldn’t have lost her job.
this girl is suffering the consequense of her actions. that is what happens in the real world. when she starts following the rules, things will get better for her.
she needs to learn that far more than she needs an immediate bail out. i know it sounds harsh, but she needs to grow up.
this young lady has been passed around from home to home all her life no one has ever taught her how to do anything for herself. the father, my son, has been trying to find a job since he got back from basic training and no one will hire him.
had a good job and lost it when he went to basics. and yes she is reaping what she sewed. we all do when we make choices good or bad.
doesn’t mean she doesn’t deserve compassion and assistance. many of the people on assistance got there from choices they made. it doesn’t mean they are any less deserving of help.
even if she or he found a job now the company insurance would not cover her due to the pregnancy being considered a pre-existing condition. and yes it sounded harsh.
sometimes we just need to get out of the way
and let jesus take control.
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