Why don’t you work around your dh’s schedule. when i was first married my dh and i both worked at fast-food restaurants. we worked opposite shifts so we did not have to pay daycare.
lots of fast food places/stores offer flexible sheduling to accomodate parents. you could work in the evening when your dh is home/ even working 7-11 pm would make you $130/week if you worked 5 evenings. You could work 2 8 hour shifts on the weekend and that would be $104 week. Another way we saved when we were first married was to live in apartments only when we were renting.
Renting a house is much more expensive. We never lived in a house until we bought our own. Most apartments have parks or play areas close by that you can take your kids to for outside time. Carrie