- June 22, 2008 at 2:54 pm #258644
Wow, there is alot of missing info here.
1. WHY has this person not worked in 15 years (disable…is
collecting income/is not collecting income Contributes, financially
or in other ways. But, clearly you are not happy about the
situation. Will actively seek work, but still not help contadicts
the has not worked in 15 years. One other reply was right on about
what are you teaching any children in this household if you have any.
My parenting has always been to love and teach our children. You are
loving and teaching them to hopefully grow up and be responsible
happy adults. Has this person been just coddled by all the enablers
in her life?
2. How old is this child of theirs (and yes you certainly can kick
the person and child out) those other family members maybe should
step up if they are gonna have attitude with it. I dont know about
you or your family…….they way I figure it I work for my money and
you should too or at least be contributing. And by no means would
this person know my personal finances. Do you know how much higher
your electric, gas, water and food bills are just because you have
two extra people freeloading at your home?
You asked how to silence this freeloader?
You are hereby asked to leave our home by July 15th 2008.
— In Budget101_@yahoogroups.com, “Oscar”
> Hello, I have a problem as stated in my subject line, I want to
> by a budget and save money but, there is a person’s in my
> family member that doesn’t believe in putting money aside for a
> raining day.
> This person has been freeloading and etc… but, try to run everyone
> financial life. He/She has not work for 15 years and stress those
> do work on buying things or pay bills that we feel that are not that
> urgent or worry about.
> We want to toss this person out along with their kid, we agree it
> benefit us but, that would not sit right with our family as a whole.
> How can we silence this freeloading worrier about bills and convince
> them about the benefits of a frugal living ,budgeting,and saving
> We are at our end with the price of gas and things this individual
> will actively seek work but, they still will not help.
> Well, Thank You for your time,help,and gratitude.
> Best Regards,
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