How to convince someone to budget and save

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Oscar, first and foremost think of your family first. This is only wife and children. Throw the freeloader out and let them fend for themselves. Why are you supporting them??

Are they able bodied and can work? If so they need to get a job and help with the expenses or they need to get out. They are costing you money with utilites, food, and anything else you furnished them.

I know that it is hard but you are enabling them to freeload off of you. Put a stop to it one way or the other. You cannot may someone want to budget and save money-especially when they do not contribute to the household.

Oscar wrote: Hello, I have a problem as stated in my subject line, I want to live
by a budget and save money but, there is a person’s in my household, a
family member that doesn’t believe in putting money aside for a
raining day.
This person has been freeloading and etc… but, try to run everyone
financial life. He/She has not work for 15 years and stress those who
do work on buying things or pay bills that we feel that are not that
urgent or worry about.
We want to toss this person out along with their kid, we agree it will
benefit us but, that would not sit right with our family as a whole.
How can we silence this freeloading worrier about bills and convince
them about the benefits of a frugal living ,budgeting,and saving money?

We are at our end with the price of gas and things this individual
will actively seek
work but, they still will not help.

Well, Thank You for your time,help,and gratitude.

Best Regards,
Oscar

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