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      Amy, you didn’t step on any toes, it really is what I think he should do, butafter years of saying it and wanting to believe it will get better, I’m tired. I evenwas so tired and stressed from all this that I had to call in sick to work on Mondaybecause I felt like I was going to throw up. I’m sure I could have had a stomach bug,but it felt more stressed induced.

      Of course staying home doesn’t help because Idon’t get paid if I don’t go to work, but I needed it. He also keeps saying that our liveswill drastically change if he has to go to work for someone else as I work at 6am 3days aweek so he gets the girls to school.

      We might have to hire someone, or ask a friend totake the kids to school if he works for someone else and he won’t have as much familytime, but I think he will have more if he doesn’t have all the business stuff to do.Thank you for your input.Jennifer
      On Apr 10, 2007, at 11:56 pm, oldenglishmum wrote:

      I’m new here but reading your post I have to put my 2 cents in.

      My
      opinion just by what I’m reading is that dh needs to grow up a little
      and take care of his family. That might sound harsh but I have been
      there and I don’t put up with that. You gals are worried about the
      nagging ruining your marriage??

      What? It doesn’t sound like you are
      happy already.

      Would your husband support you if you decided one day
      that you wanted to become an actress or a super model because it was
      your dream or that’s all you felt you could do?

      He should have a job
      that has a stable income and a regular paycheck first and work on his
      dream on the side. Only after his “dream job” looks like its up on its
      feet and you have money in the bank should he do it full time. That is
      what most people do.

      That is what my husband does. Do you have a local
      community college that he could take business classes. They are cheap
      and usually can be taken at night.

      To run your own successful business
      it takes a lot of blood, sweat and tears and hours too. You have to
      have knowledge of what is going on with every aspect of the business
      or you will surely fail. Instead of sacrificing the family he should
      be getting serious about what he is doing.

      Sorry if this steps on
      anybodies toes but it really riled me up to read about it. You girls
      shouldn’t take that crap.


      Amy

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