daughters wedding posponed

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Hi Melissa,

I am deeply sorry for your daughter. Now as I see it if he was

wiling to change religions for your daughter then all of a sudden,

he is changing his mind sounds like he is not interested in getting

married in the first place he would not have had any persude him that

he shouldn’t get married over one prophit that you worship. don’t

make the ceremony a religous one if they decide to get married again

make it a civil ceremony. sounds like mummy needs to let go of

control over her son.

Shay

— In Budget101_@yahoogroups.com, M F wrote:

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> Some of you might remember earlier in the year I wanted to give my

daughter a shower and her future mother-in-law had a fit over the

date. She also told me that it was tacky for a family member to host

the shower. She also talked her daughters out of standing up in her

sons wedding. Then the kids moved the wedding date. She did not like

March date, it might snow (but all of their families were within 1

1/2 hrs from the wedding place). The kids didn’t have enough time to

plan the wedding so they changed it to May 29. I thought she would

be happy. But the problem was she didn’t like my daughter. She is

too young (21) she told me, still in collage. Doesn’t drink, smoke

or has ever done any of it and is an all round a good mature young

lady. Her son of 27 is still not done with collage and living at

home with his parents.

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> One of the differences is our religion and his father thought of us

as colt. The boy fried (now fiancee) had told my daughter from the

beginning that he wouldn’t mind changing to her faith, since they

didn’t practice theirs and we have been practicing it for over 70

years. He volunteered to take bible study with her and get baptized.

About a month or so ago he would come over and was distant with us.

When we asked him if something was wrong, or if he was upset with us

he repeatedly told us that all was OK. Then 2 1/2 weeks before the

wedding my daughter tells us that he is not getting baptized and that

he has some problems with a profit that we believe in. When I asked

her if he has been talking to anyone of a different faith she told me

that his mom, and then i didn’t hear much of anything else she was

telling me. my blood pressure must have gone through the roof. i

thought this woman has used her last straw to stop this wedding. as

with some other religions same

> goes with ours. the pastor can’t marry if there are 2 different

faiths. So the wedding was postponed indefinitely. The wedding

dress is done, the hall, flowers, cake, invitation responses were all

inn etc. But no wedding. My dad flew in from Europe for the

wedding. Her best friend had her plain tickets and is here visiting.

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> We both have been crying and upset over the whole thing. I feel

that if it was Gods will she would have been getting married

tomorrow. But I feel her pain and sadness of what should have

happened. I feel that he has distend himself a bit from her.

Tomorrow he is going to spend 2 days at the cottage that was intended

for their honeymoon, and is going alone. Didn’t think of inviting

her to join him, not that I wanted her to go. I am so sad I just

felt I needed to ask for help. How do I help her with the pain.

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