- August 13, 2007 at 3:05 pm #253120
It is so hard to be there for her when she is resentful to us. I bet you that he is the one who told her how bad we are and to stay away from us.
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Sent: Monday, August 13, 2007 12:11:20 PM
Subject: Budget101.com : Re: Daughter in a abusive relationshipDon’t try anything. Just
let her go. But make sure she is aware you are there should she need anything (other then financial help – like you won’t just give her $$$).Don’t make her feel like she has to sneak around to see him or belittle anything about him. Just tell her you accept the fact she is an adult. You don’t like him (not for the real reason) because he doesn’t make her happy and isn’t there for her.
Remind her a relationship is 50/50 and subtly ask her where his 50% is.Just be able to be there when she falls. (but don’t word it like that) Remind her you are there for anything she needs.From: Budget101_@yahoogroups.com [mailto:Budget101_@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of M F
Sent: Monday, August 13, 2007 10:06 AM
Subject: Budget101.com : Daughter in a abusive relationshipOur almost 22 yr old daughter has been in an abusive relationship for
over a year.
We are a vary close family and she has drifted away emotionally and physically. It is tearing our family apart. We have tried to communicate with her and she is avoiding us.
Does anyone have any suggestions as to how we reach our child and bring her back into our family life again.
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