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First of all, Elizabeth, if he has sexually molested his son and you have

proof, then the law can help. Make sure that he is checked by professional

that knows what to look for in that case. That can pull a lot of weight.

As someone else has mentioned, check with an attorney and it does not cost

to consult, but if he does anything, then it will.

If your daughter feels comfortable going to the press over the child’s

molestation part, then by all means do so. This is a traumatizing

experience and I know first hand what it can do. That is so young to have

your dad molest you. At least I was older.

Also, again as someone else has already stated, make sure that the school

knows what is going on with your son-in-law. They can and will protect the

child especially if that is the case. You can get a restraining order no

matter how long you are in a state if you are fearful of your life and you

know what will happen.

She could probably get a high-profile attorney if she went to the press, but

it could traumatize your grandson more. The military cannot do anythng if

they are not on the base when this takes place. They are restricted to only

what happens on their property and the local county that they were in is

responsible for the other.

If she had the money, she could hire an investigator to prove where the

money went, and then the courts can make him give her part of what is

legally hers. Until she goes to court, then nothing can be charged to her

because she has done nothing other than flee for her life, but I would get

it on record with a restraining order and checking with an attorney.

I will be praying for her and the rest of the family and believe me that

little boy is going to need counseling to help him with this. That would

help her case also, and usually she can get help for free or close to

nothing at a county clinic for something such as this, but do it and do it

now!!!!.

Hugs,

Beth E.

On Feb 1, 2008 9:56 AM, Elizabeth Farnsworth <1_nation_under_god@comcast.net>

wrote:

> My aquired daughter left her husband, they have a 5 yr old son.

> He was ameniable and agreeable about doing things yesterday but flipped

> back last night after speaking to his mother.

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