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- February 1, 2008 at 2:56 pm #255526Guest
His lawyer says she took money and so she wont’ get
child support for 40 months.>>>This is up TO THE JUDGE to decide…no one else…call the courthouse and
ask them…I just did here in the state of WV…and was told thats the
case in ALL states….Is there anything on record with the police about them trying to take the
If there is she should be able to get a Restraining Order againsthim…which
INCLUDES HIS FAMILY…please have her call the police and talk to
someone…..Your dd and gs are in my prayers…please let us know what happens.
On 2/1/2008, “Elizabeth Farnsworth” <email@example.com>wrote:
>My aquired daughter left her husband, they have a 5 yr old son.
>He was ameniable and agreeable about doing things yesterday but flipped backlast night after speaking to his mother. He is threatening criminal abandonment
charges, North Carolina states that it’s a no fault divorce state but yet his
lawyer tried in 4 counties to get the judges to sign over custody of their sonwithout the wife even being present as they are in California. 4 judges refused!
It seems that no lawyer can help her because she hasn’t lived in California long
enough yet!???? Her husband has been verbally and mentally abusive to her ashave his family, in particular his mother. He tells her that she’s going to
give their son to husbands mother and this before divorce ever was spoke of.
Once. the in laws came to visit gchild and while BIL was in the housedistracting the mom the mil was taking gson out to the car and they were
blocking mom in the house, in other words they were trying to steal gson!
Without mothers consent and she’d told them no you cannot take him over 30times, my other daughter was a witness to this. They all tell her she’s a bad
mother etc and that they are going to take gson. Now husband is threatening
again to come and take son and press criminal charges against wife and there areno criminal actions. Oh not to mention that they’ve got several bank accounts
that have 40 grand each in them….did he put her name on them? no…did he
dispose of them so she cannot have a claim to them……yes,,,,more than likelyhidden in mommy dearest’s name somewhere…..wife left husband entire contents
of home, both vehicles, all bank accounts and income taxes. His lawyer says she
took money and so she wont’ get child support for 40 months. They have a lot ofnice expensive things in their home. He’s told her all these years that she’s
fat and things would be ok if she goes to the gym and loses weight….she has a
thyroid condition and he started on her about being 10lbs overweight right outof the hospital after their son was born and even after she said she wanted a
divorce he begged her to come back and said you could go to the gym and lose
weight and bla bla still thinking of himself and his way, his conditions, histerms. She does not want this marriage but said tho he’s been a shitty abusive
husband to me he’s been a good father to their son and she is willing to let him
see their son anytime he has time off from the military and it doesn’t interfearwith sons schooling. He is threatening her to take their child away and I dont’
think he has grounds to stand on but she is so afraid and distrought about
losing her son.>Does anyone know what we can do legally to get them to stop threatening to
press unfounded charges and get a restraining order against him and his family
for now until they decide to be human….it’s highly likely that they’d stealthe son. Last time I checked it wasn’t a crime to leave your husband or your
home…criminal abandonment…..? what the is that! There has got to be
something she can do either with lawyer here in California or a lawyer in NorthCarolina without having to travel back and forth on money she does not have I’m
worried at this point that they’d remove him from school and kidnap him….there
must be something we can do to protect against that????? any idea for help?> Oh and don’t bother saying to ask the military because they do not do jac k
squat to help a wife even when criminal charges are pressed against one fo their
military men and you wonder why north carolina has the highest abuse rate andmurdered women…………. I know this first hand because my son in law
molested my grandson and the miltary has not done shit about it! I think maybe
the press needs to be brought in or something.>
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