ADHD or Aspergers? Please help! Child #2

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      Ah I see now. A lot of it sounds like Asperger’s with him. Altho he

      doesn’t cry Matt can still have a tantum and he’s almost 24. Some

      times he seems like a normal person so to speak and other’s it’s like

      talking to a 6 year old.

      If there’s a charter school near you or if you have school of choice

      there I would consider changing his school if you can. Matt went to

      priviate school for K-2 it was a very small class of anywhere from 2-5

      so she could give lots of one on one attention. Third -6th was a

      public school, he didn’t pass 5th but she still passed him. Toward the

      end of his 6th year I found the charter school. The next year he

      started school at the charter redoing 6th grade at my request. That

      was the best thing I ever done for him. Because they are a charter

      they dont’ have to follow the rules that a public school does so their

      special ed is much better. At least in my opinion. And altho it’s free

      like public school it can do more things with the kids like a private


      On 3/15/08, kaykay75423 <> wrote:

      > Two years ago I got remarried. My husband has 3 children and I have

      > 2. The first time I met Child #2 (husbands son), I was in shock that

      > he was 10 years old. He acted like he was 5. I thought he probably

      > has some learning problems and maybe some mild form of retardation.

      > He has 2 brothers ages 5 and 7. The 5 year old was more mature than

      > him.

      > Now for the background. My husband worked a lot when he was with his

      > first wife. Why she ever has children I will never know. They were

      > left to be raised by the television so she could sleep and be on the

      > computer. When she left, she left the kids with my husband and he has

      > custody. Because he had to work all the time, his mom kept the kids

      > for him. His mom had child #2 diagnosed with ADHD and was giving him

      > 60 mg of Ritalin a day. At night, she was giving all of them sleeping

      > pills so they would go to sleep fast. When they got sick, she would

      > save money by giving them antibiotics that were bought from the feed

      > store for cattle.

      > When my husband and I got married and they moved in with me, I

      > immediately stopped all the pills to let them detox. When school

      > started, child #2 was struggling. He barely passed. He took the TAKS

      > math test 3 times before passing it. Because of his immaturity and

      > struggles, I had him repeat 5th grade. In my town, you go to Jr High

      > in 6th. I knew he wouldn’t make it. Now he is in the 5th grade for

      > the second time and is doing worse. He is failing most of his classes

      > that is a repeat of what he did last year.

      > On top of being very immature, he is also very aggressive. He is

      > normally sweet until you make him mad. He tries to severly hurt his

      > brothers if they do something to make him mad (especially child #1

      > from previous post). He doesn’t like for people to touch him. If

      > someone walks by and bumps him, he will push them accross the room.

      > When I try to talk to him about his behavior, he just starts to cry.

      > He doesn’t like loud noise. He has an exceptional memory. He can

      > repeat scenes from every movie he has ever seen. He had his lines

      > memorized for the scool play before he ever came home with the paper.

      > But ask him what he learned or did in school that day, and he can’t

      > tell you. He talks with a funny pitch in his voice and uses exact

      > pronunciation of every word. He makes funny sounds all the time.

      > I have ask them to test him at school for learning problems and

      > maybe special ed., but they say it is a long process to do and

      > haven’t even started yet. I need to know what kind of doctor I need

      > to take him to have him diagnosed. I’ve done research and I think he

      > may have aspergers. He doesn’t seem to be doing any better as the

      > years pass and seems to be getting worse in school with time. I want

      > to help him, but am not sure how. Any help would be greatly

      > appreciated.

      > Thanks,

      > kaykay







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