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    I am looking for some advice on giving children allowances. My daughter is
    almost 8 and thinks that ATM machines just *GIVE* you money and that food is
    *FREE* if you get it at the drive thru. Quite disturbing! We obviously
    need to teach her how money works in addition to the value of a dollar!!
    So, I was wondering how other families handle allowances with kids this age.
    I don't want to spoil her, but I want to give her enough so that she has
    some money to "manage". How much would you suggest? Would you tie it in to
    chores? What has worked for your families?

    TIA,
    Karla


    From: "Karla Braxton"
    Date: Fri Feb 21, 2003 9:58 am
    Subject: children's allowances

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    I am a foster parent and the state tells us to give children 10 and under 10
    bucks a month. Children over 10 get 15 bucks a month. We are not allowed to say
    this is for chores, but we can take away some of the money if behavior or school
    work is not @ the right level that you have agreed on.
    Friday Blessings,
    Theresa

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    I would definitely tie it to the chores. Thats the only way a kid learns that
    money doesn't come free. A friend of mine came up w/a wonderful idea...sure
    she heard it from somebody else but I heard it from her...LOL Anyway, she
    would set an amount her child/children would earn say a week and they would
    have chores that would need to be done in order to earn that money. Stuff like
    taking their dishes from the dinner table was NOT a chore, THAT was part of
    being a family. Anyway, each chore was assigned a monetary value and if that
    chore was not completed PROPERLY that set amount of money would be deducted
    from their total allowence. She said in the beginning there were a couple
    weeks where she didn't have to give out any allowence but they soon learned and
    now she gives out full allowences on a regular basis....

    Nath

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    I give my son $2 a week he is 8. He can earn $1 more by behavior in school
    and doing chores around the house. It is good for them to not have their
    allowance tied to chores, then they can earn extra $$$ by doing chores or
    being good. Chores are not doings some dishes, making your bed or folding
    clothes they are above and beyond normal chores, like washing a car,
    weeding a garden, etc.

    Charlotte ) In Texas

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    I totally agree that allowance shouldn't be tied to normal chores, only to "extras", since that is part of living in a home and being part of a family. I would also say that good behavior in school and at home should be expected, and no extra allowance given for that. Rather, allowance might be deducted for bad behavior.

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    I totally agree that allowance shouldn't be tied to normal chores, only to "extras", since that is part of living in a home and being part of a family. I would also say that good behavior in school and at home should be expected, and no extra allowance given for that. Rather, allowance might be deducted for bad behavior.

 

 

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