HELP!! Need tips

I am a working mother of 3. My husband and I make decent money but we are always broke!!!!!!!!! We never are able to keep the bills in line. A lot of it is my fault. I just can't seem to buckle down. I don't manage money well. I need tips on saving money on food, household items,

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  1. #1
    shadistin3
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    I am a working mother of 3. My husband and I make decent money but we

    are always broke!!!!!!!!! We never are able to keep the bills in

    line. A lot of it is my fault. I just can't seem to buckle down. I

    don't manage money well. I need tips on saving money on food,

    household items, etc......I don't blow money, I just don't put

    important things first then I freak out when I am behind. Sounds

    immature I know. Any advice would be helpful.



    Thank you.








  2. #2
    Ann Garner
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    At 07:15 PM 7/23/2008, you wrote:

    >..I don't blow money, I just don't put

    >important things first then I freak out when I am behind. Sounds

    >immature I know.



    Admit it, you *do* blow money if you don't put the important things

    first. At least you do admit you do have the problem. Now learn to

    listen to yourself when you tell yourself "no".



    One thing I do when I'm really wanting to save for something is to

    take my credit cards (I have 2, and a gas credit card) and my 2 ATM

    cards and slide each in a card size envelope with something like

    "vacation in March" written on it. That visual reminder really helps

    me to keep things in perspective.



    Some people have the envelope method where they take the money each

    paycheck and put the proper amount for each payment in the designated

    envelope. I do this with a ledger system. The money stays in the

    bank account, but I keep record of what is set aside for each payment

    on a designated page in the ledger book. That way, I can do on-line

    or automated phone system payments with no trouble.



    I used to have the same problem, but I've changed my ways. It took

    me a bit of time, but I have no problems doing it now.



    Ann in Arkansas










  3. #3
    Suzi McMullen
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    One thing that has driven me crazy for the last 21 years is that my income goes up and down a LOT. I can be sailing a long, paying my tithe, paying my bills and even have things paid ahead wherever possible. Then some daycare parent loses their job or gets laid off and suddenly I am missing some of my income. Paying bills ahead helps here, but sometimes I'll lose someone from both shifts or even 2-3 people all at the same time and no amount of planning helps me through. Not only do I lose income at that point, but I have to put ads in the paper. My debt is pretty much broken down like this...1/3rd medical related, 1/3rd job layoffs (my husbands included)and unexpected stuff that happens and 1/3rd times I've splurged which is my fault I know.

    What so often happens is that I'll think I'm doing good. So I'll spend a few hundred on something I've been waiting for. I'll pay cash for this item. Then a few days later some parent I've been working with a year or two will suddenly get fired, quit, announce they are moving away etc. Often it's with no notice what-so-ever. At that point I'll whip out the credit cards and make up for any shortages with the best intentions of getting back on track when the kids are replaced. This month is perfect example.. I have made some purchases I have wanted and thought I had money to pay for. Then my daughter got sick and we now have 4-5 bills and even an 800 dollar ambulance bill. We do have insurance. But we have deductibles and they bill for so many differentpeople/doctors/hospital/lab/radiologist etc..for the same illness. On top of that, 2 of my daycare parents were laid off this month. So my income is down and my bills are up.

    I guess I get a little jelous sometimes when I hear people talk about budgeting down to the last inth.

    Am I alone in this?

    Suzi



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    hs3xmama
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    To save money on food, start making everything from scratch.

    hillbillyhousewife.com is a good website for inexpensive recipes. My

    kids love the Peanut Butter Cookie cereal from that site for

    breakfast. There are also granola cereal recipes if you want cold

    cereal. Also, check out budget101.com for recipes, too. If you like

    to make things from mixes, they have a lot of mix recipes:

    http://www.budget101.com/102mix.htm



    There are lots of household recipes, too:

    http://www.budget101.com/household.htm



    If you get the toolbar, you'll have these and other cool stuff easily

    accessible right at your fingertips:

    http://budget101comfreebiesncoupons.forumtoolbar.com/





    Tami



    --- In Budget101_@yahoogroups.com, "shadistin3" <shadistin3@...> wrote:

    >

    > I am a working mother of 3. My husband and I make decent money but we

    > are always broke!!!!!!!!! We never are able to keep the bills in

    > line. A lot of it is my fault. I just can't seem to buckle down. I

    > don't manage money well. I need tips on saving money on food,

    > household items, etc......I don't blow money, I just don't put


    > important things first then I freak out when I am behind. Sounds

    > immature I know. Any advice would be helpful.

    >

    > Thank you.

    >










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    Sally Vanwinkle
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    It sounds like you need Dave Ramsey FPU(financial peace university) it's classes/meetings with his book.The only way I found out about it was through my church and they gave us a schlorship because they knew we wanted to take it but couldn't afford it.It teaches and gives you advice on how to manage your money.I have been doing the zero balance and it helps me keep track of my money and where it's going.From your starting balance you write down all necessities and what you need to pay until you get a zero balance.It takes a while to know how much exactly your spending so you have to write everything done at first.There is a Dave Ramsey group just like this one that you can ask for advice.It
    has help me get things in order even though I sometimes get off track but you got to keep at it.I hope everything works out.

    Sally
    ----- Original Message ----
    From: shadistin3 <shadistin3@yahoo.com>
    To: Budget101_@yahoogroups.com
    Sent: Wednesday, July 23, 2008 7:15:34 PM
    Subject: Budget101.com : HELP!! Need tips



    I am a working mother of 3. My husband and I make decent money but we
    are always broke!!!!!!! !! We never are able to keep the bills in
    line. A lot of it is my fault. I just can't seem to buckle down. I

    don't manage money well. I need tips on saving money on food,
    household items, etc......I don't blow money, I just don't put
    important things first then I freak out when I am behind. Sounds
    immature I know. Any advice would be helpful.

    Thank you.






  6. #6
    arlisa
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    Get a Money book or a computer programas Quick books

    make a list of all the major bills, food,clothes entertaiment etc.

    Then once everything is paid down

    see what is left

    put the rest in a savings account

    It'll kill at first but i will help you in the long run and become an

    aouautomatic system for you

    it has helped for me

    arlisa







    --- In Budget101_@yahoogroups.com, "shadistin3" <shadistin3@...> wrote:

    >

    > I am a working mother of 3. My husband and I make decent money but

    we

    > are always broke!!!!!!!!! We never are able to keep the bills in

    > line. A lot of it is my fault. I just can't seem to buckle down. I

    > don't manage money well. I need tips on saving money on food,

    > household items, etc......I don't blow money, I just don't put

    > important things first then I freak out when I am behind. Sounds

    > immature I know. Any advice would be helpful.

    >

    > Thank you.

    >










  7. #7
    Laura Sharp
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    No you are not alone.. we go thru the same thing. Hubby was working M-F 12-14 hours a day, most Sat. 10-12 hours... We had money saved, paid ahead on some things, etc. Then one Friday they announced a lay off will happen for winter. This was right before Thanksgiving, layoff would happen at Christmas time, off for 3 weeks, brought back to work in Jan. Ok, that&#39;ll work. He goes back on Monday, told nope, change of plans, you will work Mon, Tues, Wed, off Thursday for Thanksgiving and if you don&#39;t come in Friday, you don&#39;t get your Holiday pay, off work starting the following the week and we don&#39;t know when you&#39;ll be coming back. He was out of work for 4 months before they started up again. This was a few years back... thankfully we had money saved. Problem now, all the saved money is gone, he works 4 days a week, flat 40 hours... we have no overtime to save up for winter layoff which has happened every year since, so every year is a little tougher. This year with fuel and food skyrocketing it will be worse. I&#39;m hoping my garden will do good and I can get alot canned to feed us this year.

    Laura
    sw Ohio
    zone 5-6


    On 7/23/08, Suzi McMullen[/b] <smcmullen@kc.rr.com> wrote:

    <div style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: #ffffff;" bgcolor="#ffffff">
    <font face="Arial" size="2">One thing that has driven me crazy for the last 21 years is that my income goes up and down a LOT. I can be sailing a long, paying my tithe, paying my bills and even have things paid ahead wherever possible. Then some daycare parent loses their job or gets laid off and suddenly I am missing some of my income. Paying bills ahead helps here, but sometimes I&#39;ll lose someone from both shifts or even 2-3 people all at the same time and no amount of planning helps me through. Not only do I lose income at that point, but I have to put ads in the paper. My debt is pretty much broken down like this...1/3rd medical related, 1/3rd job layoffs (my husbands included)and unexpected stuff that happens and 1/3rd times I&#39;ve splurged which is my fault I know.
    <font face="Arial" size="2">
    <font face="Arial" size="2">What so often happens is that I&#39;ll think I&#39;m doing good. So I&#39;ll spend a few hundred on something I&#39;ve been waiting for. I&#39;ll pay cash for this item. Then a few days later some parent I&#39;ve been working with a year or two will suddenly get fired, quit, announce they are moving away etc. Often it&#39;s with no notice what-so-ever. At that point I&#39;ll whip out the credit cards and make up for any shortages with the best intentions of getting back on track when the kids are replaced. This month is perfect example.. I have made some purchases I have wanted and thought I had money to pay for. Then my daughter got sick and we now have 4-5 bills and even an 800 dollar ambulance bill. We do have insurance. But we have deductibles and they bill for so many differentpeople/doctors/hospital/lab/radiologist etc..for the same illness. On top of that, 2 of my daycare parents were laid off this month. So my income is down and my bills are up.
    <font face="Arial" size="2">
    <font face="Arial" size="2">I guess I get a little jelous sometimes when I hear people talk about budgeting down to the last inth.
    <font face="Arial" size="2">
    <font face="Arial" size="2">Am I alone in this?
    <font face="Arial" size="2">[/quote]



  8. #8
    arlisa
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    wow i messed that up

    lol



    (arlisa) ^^







    ----- Original Message ----

    From: arlisa <arli_boo@yahoo.com>

    To: Budget101_@yahoogroups.com

    Sent: Thursday, July 24, 2008 12:49:01 AM

    Subject: Budget101.com : Re: HELP!! Need tips





    Get a Money book or a computer programas Quick books

    make a list of all the major bills, food,clothes entertaiment etc.

    Then once everything is paid down

    see what is left

    put the rest in a savings account

    It'll kill at first but i will help you in the long run and become an

    aouautomatic system for you

    it has helped for me

    arlisa






 

 
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