I have found the more we trust them the freeer they feel about talking. Not to

be bossy but

give hints as to solve or things just for mom ears. Trust both ways are

important even if they

mess up stand behind them and tell them some learning comes the hard way but

Love does

not Quit .let them learn a few lessons the hard way .the hard way is hard on me

because I

want to fix everything but I learnt hard way Love and Trust is so much better

Fiqureing out

there problems with a bit advice helps them to grow .If this makes sense it does

to me .I love

reading the posts Thanks