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  1. #1
    Liss
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    Another Thread ...



    Do you make/require your children to do household chores?



    If so, What Chores & how old are the children?



    Also, is allowance part of the equation or is it because they need to

    learn that families work together and everyone needs to do their part?



    Just curious.



    As most of you know I have 2 children and we require them to do

    chores. I am revamping what is expected of them as we speak. I feel it

    is important that kids learn how to properly keep house as well as how

    to plan and prepare meals. Obviously I don't expect them to cok and

    clean my house, but I do want them to be self sufficient when they are

    old enough for their own apartments and not live like pigs & eat out of

    a take-out box, lol.



    ~Liss








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    Tracy Latour
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    <div style="font-family:verdana, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size:12pt;"><DIV style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt;FONT-FAMILY: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif;">My daughter is five 1/2 and she is required to clean up after each meal. When I am cleaning the house she helps me often. That is about it. No, she does not get an allowance.
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    ----- Original Message ----
    From: Liss <liss@budget101.com>
    To: Budget101_@yahoogroups.com
    Sent: Monday, March 10, 2008 11:08:37 AM
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    Another Thread ...

    Do you make/require your children to do household chores?

    If so, What Chores & how old are the children?

    Also, is allowance part of the equation or is it because they need to
    learn that families work together and everyone needs to do their part?

    Just curious.

    As most of you know I have 2 children and we require them to do
    chores. I am revamping what is expected of them as we speak. I feel it
    is important that kids learn how to properly keep house as well as how
    to plan and prepare meals. Obviously I don't expect them to cok and
    clean my house, but I do want them to be self sufficient when they are
    old enough for their own apartments and not live like pigs & eat out of
    a take-out box, lol.

    ~Liss


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    Pj
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    My children are very spoiled. I have a very simple chore chart and they each have only one assigned chore each day. I tell them that is a reason to be grateful for a large family! If they had less siblings, they'd have more chores! The chore chart rotates each week. They are alsosupposed to make their bed daily and keep their bedroom picked up. They also have to bring their dirty clothes to the laundry room (only if they want their clothes washed!) and take their clean clothes from the laundry room to their bedroom (preferably in their drawers!) I don't go into kids bedrooms to find clothes to wash. It only takes a time or two of having your 10-14 yo realize they have no clean clothes before school, and after that they are better at bringing clothes to laundry. I also tell my kids that the "Laundry Fairy" does not come in the middle of the night, so don't ever expect the clothes to be clean for school the next day, when you take them to the laundry room the night
    before. Aren't I mean and sarcastic? lol I do not give my kids allowance to do chores. When the subject comes up, I always say that as soon as someone pays me to clean my own house, I'll pay them! However, I always have extra chores that are worth money for those who are trying to earn/save. It's really easy to write a list of what needs to be down and how much it's worth, and put it on the bulletin board. My 10 yodd is always keeping a running list of what extra chores she did and how much they're worth. She knows that when she wants the money I'll give it to her - that way she is less apt to lose it, or have one of the little kids find her money and lose it!


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    Amy W
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    My son is 12 and he's been able todo his own laundry for about a year now. (Wash, dry, put away)
    He alsowashes, dries and puts away the dishes on alternating nights with me.
    He mops, sweeps, vacuums, dusts, takes out trash.

    He does not get "paid" for it, as this is part of the thankless job that we all do in our family.

    However, he does get "coupons" once a week if he completes his chores without whining. Coupons are good for a free room cleaning by mom, a chore-free night, video game rentals, a special treat (ice cream cone, candy bar, etc.) or having a friend over.
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    ----- Original Message ----
    From: Liss <liss@budget101.com>
    To: Budget101_@yahoogroups.com
    Sent: Monday, March 10, 2008 12:08:37 PM
    Subject: Budget101.com : Parenting- Chores- Children





    Another Thread ...

    Do you make/require your children to do household chores?

    If so, What Chores & how old are the children?

    Also, is allowance part of the equation or is it because they need to
    learn that families work together and everyone needs to do their part?

    Just curious.

    As most of you know I have 2 children and we require them to do
    chores. I am revamping what is expected of them as we speak. I feel it
    is important that kids learn how to properly keep house as well as how
    to plan and prepare meals. Obviously I don't expect them to cok and
    clean my house, but I do want them to be self sufficient when they are
    old enough for their own apartments and not live like pigs & eat out of
    a take-out box, lol.

    ~Liss





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    Christine Bergeron
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    My kids are ages 5, 6, 8, 10, & 11 They do chores for FREE Help with walking the 4 dogs & feeding them Cleaning bunny and hamster cages Vaccumming Dishes picking up any messes they make Trash to outside barrel and on trash day bring to curb and anything else they would like to help with My 5 yr old daughter is home so she helps with laundry,mopping the floor,sweeping, paying the bills, whatever I am doing etc. Christine

    Liss <liss@budget101.com> wrote: Another Thread ...

    Do you make/require your children to do household chores?

    If so, What Chores & how old are the children?

    Also, is allowance part of the equation or is it because they need to
    learn that families work together and everyone needs to do their part?

    Just curious.

    As most of you know I have 2 children and we require them to do
    chores. I am revamping what is expected of them as we speak. I feel it
    is important that kids learn how to properly keep house as well as how
    to plan and prepare meals. Obviously I don't expect them to cok and
    clean my house, but I do want them to be self sufficient when they are
    old enough for their own apartments and not live like pigs & eat out of
    a take-out box, lol.

    ~Liss




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    Tressa Watts
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    I am a bad mom...my daughter has very little chores except for keeping her room clean and cleaning the bathroom on occassion. My daughter has a very FULL schedule. She does a homework club after school then goes to weight training from 4:30-530 then basketball from 5:30-7. Oh thursdays she leaves basketball early (it is the off season) she then goes to volleyball from 7-9:15 on Thursday. School ball changes the schedule from homework club to school sports...

    Weekends and other time is either traveling to sports competition..(plays for an elite volleyball team and playing up with highschool in basketball..she is an 8th grader) so any down time from sports and school is her time....her schedule is pretty tight so I try to give her down time to hang with her freinds and do teenager things. She has her grown-up life to do housework etc....and as long as her grades are good and she doesnt feel stressed she will keep up this schedule when she gets into highschool.

    Tressa





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    Another Thread ...

    Do you make/require your children to do household chores?

    If so, What Chores & how old are the children?

    Also, is allowance part of the equation or is it because they need to
    learn that families work together and everyone needs to do their part?

    Just curious.

    As most of you know I have 2 children and we require them to do
    chores. I am revamping what is expected of them as we speak. I feel it
    is important that kids learn how to properly keep house as well as how
    to plan and prepare meals. Obviously I don't expect them to cok and
    clean my house, but I do want them to be self sufficient when they are
    old enough for their own apartments and not live like pigs & eat out of
    a take-out box, lol.

    ~Liss



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  7. #7
    Robyn Jarrell
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    I agree, I have 4 kids, now twins 20, 18 and 7. I have never paid for chores. they all learned to fold towels and wash cloths at age 5, then empty small trash cans, etc as they got older they did other things like the list below, vacuuming, dishes, cleaning their rooms to include changing sheets weekly, dusting, etc. I am one person and I feel it is my job to teach them responsibility. It has never hurt a child to do something for free. It also teaches them to appreciate the money the unexpectedly get. Occassionly my husband and I would surprise them and add a few dollars in a 'nice jar'. If htey did something nice such as when my dtr was sick without being asked my son did her chores. He had no idea he would get money. Or when we were at the grocery, my youngest son helped an elderly woman put
    her groceries in her cart while I was doing mine. Very unselfish act of kindness. Robyn



    ----- Original Message ----
    From: Christine Bergeron <bergeronkids5@yahoo.com>
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    My kids are ages 5, 6, 8, 10, & 11
    They do chores for FREE
    Help with walking the 4 dogs & feeding them
    Cleaning bunny and hamster cages
    Vaccumming
    Dishes
    picking up any messes they make
    Trash to outside barrel and on trash day bring to curb
    and anything else they would like to help with
    My 5 yr old daughter is home so she helps with laundry,mopping the floor,sweeping, paying the bills, whatever I am doing etc.

    Christine


    Liss <liss@budget101. com> wrote:


    Another Thread ...

    Do you make/require your children to do household chores?

    If so, What Chores & how old are the children?

    Also, is allowance part of the equation or is it because they need to
    learn that families work together and everyone needs to do their part?

    Just curious.

    As most of you know I have 2 children and we require them to do
    chores. I am revamping what is expected of them as we speak. I feel it
    is important that kids learn how to properly keep house as well as how
    to plan and prepare meals. Obviously I don't expect them to cok and
    clean my house, but I do want them to be self sufficient when they are
    old enough for their own apartments and not live like pigs & eat out of
    a take-out box, lol.

    ~Liss













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  8. #8
    Stephanie Dark
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    My kids are ages 8.5 & 6 y.o. They are expected to make their beds,

    put away their clothes, and pick up after themselves (ie, dishes in

    dishwasher, toys away after use, etc.) every day. Honestly, they

    could probably use more chores, however most afternoons are chock full

    of homework so I don't want to make them do anything else after

    spending 1-2 hours doing all the homework that is required of them at

    school; I'd prefer they have 30-60 mins. to play or just relax before

    dinner and the bedtime routine.



    On weekends we expect them to help out when we are cleaning the house

    (ie, help vaccuum, help dust, "help" w/minor home repairs -- even if

    it's just coming w/one of us to the hardware store or keeping us

    company while we work -- etc.).



    I'm trying to incorporate having them help me w/the laundry, but again

    there's that homework issue; maybe over the summer I'll start

    enforcing this.



    Yes, they get an allowance that is not tied to their chores. We view

    this as an introduction to money management so they can learn to

    save,spend, budget, etc. As they get older we'll consider tying some

    extra money to extra chores; we've tried this w/our son (who

    perpetually is saving for a computer, then spends his money and has to

    start over again) & the grandparents have even offered to pay him for

    odd jobs and projects, but he's not yet taken them or us up on the

    offer. As far as how much, my 6 y.o. gets $1/week (25-cents each for

    spend, save, donate, invest) & the 8.5 y.o. gets $2.00 ($1 spend, $1

    divided among the other three); they get a 50-cent raise every birthday.



    Stephanie






 

 
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