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danghsia

it just me or it is USA

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I mean most couple i known divorce or in process of one. It very sad to hear that most are asian that imigrate to USA. Wonder what happen.

Actually my dad and mom fight almost everytime and said they will divorce if wasn't for us kid. Please, If they think about us they will not fight infront of us or tell us about how bad the other person is. It just plain annoying.

I just want they to stop
I am so mad .. well I will blog more later

in the mean time I wish to learn what going on here ?

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  1. wilbe95's Avatar
    I do not think that it is just a USA thing, but more that you have that choice here and that it is considered "normal" today in the USA if you do divorce.

    I still hold to marriage is a lifetime committment-do it once and make it count. Over time you do get irritated with the other person for one reason or another but having real conversations talking it out is what a marriage should be. I am the odd one in my family-my brother and sister are both on their second marriages, first ones lasted only 7 years-my hubby and I had a huge celebration on our 8th wedding anniversary because we had been married for the first time the longest and survived the major bumps.

    Communication is the key to making any relationship work.
  2. tsgal's Avatar
    If your parents don't fight in front of you or tell you about it, that isn't that bad. Sometimes parents have to work things out on thier own. I would say that it's good if they don't talk bad about the other one to the kids. My hubby and I don't argue in front of our childern. We do talk, but if it gets to heated, we well go to the bedroom. Which doesn't happen to often, we've been together for almost 18 years, so we've gotten used to each other now.
  3. danghsia's Avatar
    the thing is my parents do fight infornt of us and tell us about each other bad thing

    I wonder they only act that infront of US kid

    It really feel bad

    What I can do so they stop tell us about each other bad thing? especially my dad. he annoys me now oh phone. Call me to ask about MoM or tell me why she act that way and so on and on... What to do?

    I want them to be together. but something i think, it will be better for them to be apart
  4. faxonfive's Avatar
    Danghsia,

    I believe every relationship is different no matter where in the world it is. Marriage is a two way street, both the Mother and the Father need to keep the doors of communication open with each other. I also believe that arguments should not be addressed in front of children. The child may start to feel unloved. When parents that are unhappy together - stay together just for the kids, its really not a good situation. There is alot of animosity there and there will be hatred that builds up and lasts a long time!!

    My husband and I have been together 22 years and married for 20. We agreed early in our marriage that we would keep open communication and always discuss with each other if something was bothering us. Our kids can still sometimes tells if we are upset with each other and they will say something, we then talk to each other and work things out The parent needs to keep in mind that we effect our children alot by our actions and the choices we make.

    Have you tried talking to your parents that what they are doing is effectiong you? or mention to them that maybe they might want to see a marriage counselor??

    I hope things work out for you and your parents, you seem like a nice person!!

    God Bless!!!
  5. beansthemama's Avatar
    Being marride is the one of the hardest jobs, and then you become parents, that makes it harder.
    Until you are marride yourself, it is hard to understand.
    I however do not believe in divorce. 9 years ago I made a commitment to myself, my hubby, to my family, to my friends and most important to GOD, that this is who I was choosing as my LIFE partner. Through the good and the bad, he is who I choose.
    I think people take those vows to lightly these days.....however I did not, and I think that couples should think long and hard when they do descide to tie the knot.
    I hope things get better for your parents. Take care
  6. danghsia's Avatar
    I did kinda hint at my parents that I am unhappy to be at home because they always argue

    The bad things it now they call me on phone and tell me about all the bad things ARRGRRRR,....

    ANd they don't believe in counseling and divorce AT LEAST NOT YET

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